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When Kerry Cutrer learned she would not survive her battle with
cancer, her first thoughts were for her daughter. The 31-year-old
wife and mother wanted to leave her six-year-old daughter, Heather,
with one last happy memory.
The Cutrers had talked a lot about a vacation in Disney World.
Kerry knew it was now or never and decided that she would find a
way to take Heather on the trip she had promised for so long. She
called a travel agent and began planning.
When palliative care nurse Debbie Bourgeois found out about Kerry's
plans, she stepped up to help. Debbie understood how important this
final task was to Kerry and her family, and vowed to help make the
trip the very best it could be.
Debbie enlisted the help of the Palliative Care team, the hospital's
Foundation and Kerry's physician, Dr. Jayne Gurtler. Together, they
began gathering funds and services to make the Cutrers' trip truly
special.
The Foundation staff immediately hit the phones, calling local companies
and Disney personnel to ask for their help. They also donated funds
for the trip through the Rich Mauti Cancer Fund.
The first challenge was to make sure that Kerry would have everything
she needed medically, and that she would be able to get around the
park. Egan Healthcare Services was contacted and generously donated
a wheelchair for Kerry, as well as funds for the trip. New Orleans
Limousine Service and Windsor Limousine made sure the family got
to and from the airport in comfort and style.
Once the family arrived in Orlando, they were given VIP treatment
by Disney staff.
"Disney really pulled out all the stops," says Foundation
Development Specialist Darlene McGarry. "They added a lot of
extra magic."
That extra magic began when the family arrived at their room in
the park's Pop Century Resort. The room was filled with stuffed
animals for Heather and gifts for her parents courtesy of Disney
Hand, the corporation's community outreach division, and the hotel's
front office team.
"She was just stunned," says Kerry of her daughter's reaction.
"She was speechless - and that's unusual for Heather!"
But those weren't the only surprises in store for the family. Walt
Disney Studios arranged a special VIP meet-and-greet with Heather's
favorite Disney characters. Although bashful at first, Kerry says
Heather had a great time having her picture taken with the characters.
Kerry says the family had a wonderful trip that was more special
than she ever could have hoped for. She is grateful to everyone
who worked so hard to make her wish a reality.
"They made my dream come true," she says.
If you'd like to make a donation to the Foundation of East Jefferson
General Hospital, or to the Rich Mauti Cancer Fund, please call
the Foundation at 504-780-5800.
Enhancing Life Through Palliative
Care
The Palliative Care team at EJGH strives to ensure comfort, dignity
and quality of life for patients and families coping with advanced
illness. The goal of Palliative Care is not to hasten or postpone
death, but to relieve suffering, control pain and other symptoms,
and help patients and family members make important decisions.
Members of the Palliative Care team represent a variety of disciplines.
They include
palliative care nurses, physicians, care managers, social workers,
chaplains, pharmacists, and dietitians, along with the patient and
his or her caregivers.
Many patients with advanced illness, like Kerry Cutrer, have unfinished
business they need to complete. According to Palliative Care Nurse
Debbie Bourgeois, motivation to complete these final tasks is about
what they want to leave behind. Their goals are unselfish and are
intended to leave something for their loved ones.
"Final goals are a statement about who they are and how they
want to be remembered," says Debbie. "It's about leaving
a legacy."
Debbie has helped many patients identify their final goals and complete
them. For some patients the goal is to witness an event, like a
wedding or birth of a grandchild. For others it might mean asking
forgiveness or resolving a conflict.
Kerry's motivation was to leave something for her daughter. Debbie
says it's no accident that, despite her own physical pain, she chose
to take Heather to Disney World, a place that epitomizes life, magic
and the way we'd like the world to be.
"The strength of the human spirit is amazing," says Debbie.
"Even when death is near, it's all about life."
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